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Tuesday, September 20, 2011

My Sona's birthday - poem dedicated...


To my dearest wife SONA


This is my way of thanking YOU,
A woman who I think I always KNEW,

What a big difference you have made to my LIFE
I am proud to say that you are my WIFE

You take care of everything without feeling any PAIN
I feel so happy to see you make others happy and dance in RAIN

What more can I ask from GOD
To give you as my wife,I can only thank the LORD

Today is my Sona’s BIRTHDAY
“I love you” are the only three words I can SAY



                                                                        Your Loving Husband
                                                                                    Krishna/Kittu

Why do people fast ?

The types of fasts that I am aware of are mentioned below -

Health Fasts- With health fasts, one usually has intakes of fresh juice, fruits for a period of time to cleanse the body from all the toxins that had built up in it. This is a way of giving some “time-out” to our internal digestive organs which are really over-worked with the junk food, odd hours of eating, stress  that we usually have.

Then, there  are  people(from the entertainment/fashion world) who stretch this beyond limits.
Prime examples of this are actresses/models/wags(Kareena / Victoria Beckham to name a few) who are or have been  obsessed with “size-zero”. Anorexic and weak looking – are the side-effects…

Spiritual Fasts – Almost all the religions in this world have given significance to spiritual fasts –the Navratri fast, Ramazan fast,the Lent fast and so on.

For the spiritual fasts, it is a path to control the senses, desires and provide you an opportunity to connect to God. In a spiritual fast, you have a “time-out” from the strong desire of eating rich and tasty food. It is a matter of controlling   that desire and channelize your thoughts towards “food for the soul”.
 It helps in establishing a harmonious relationship between the body and the soul. This is thought to be imperative for the well- being of a human being as it nourishes both his/her physical and spiritual demands.
Fasting is not only a part of worship, but a great instrument for self-discipline too. It is a training of the mind and the body to endure and harden up against all hardships, to persevere under difficulties and not give up
Again, keeping spiritual fasts is not about only eating simple food throughout the day, it is also about the way you think, conduct and act. It is the time to introspect and search for the right path towards attaining spiritual balance that the mind and the soul desires.



A Non-Violent Protest
From a matter of dietary control, fasting has come to be a handy tool of societal control. It is a non-violent form of protest. A hunger strike can draw attention to a grievance and can bring about an emendation or redress. It is interesting to note that it was Mahatma Gandhi who used fasting to capture people's attention.
Mahatma Gandhi then and Anna Hazare now have also used the process of fasting as a medium to highlight their concern/viewpoint to the public in general.This is a way to bring in awareness on an issue that needs immediate attention of the administration and the public. People who have dedicated their lives to the cause of building a strong nation,improving  people’s quality of life and society in general have used fasting as a means to give impetus to such movements.

Fellow-Feeling
Finally, the pangs of hunger that one experiences during fasting make one think and extend one's sympathy towards the destitute who often go without food. In this context, fasting functions as a societal gain wherein people share with each other a fellow feeling. Fasting provides an opportunity for the privileged to give food-grains to the less privileged and alleviate their distress, at least for the moment.


My views – Fasts are something that a man has created for himself because he has not been successful in managing his health – physical and spiritual.

My question is - Can we lead the life of a person who has no desires and is content with what he has? Who is that person? That person according to me is called – A Happy Person!!

Its human nature to desire more, acquire more, spend more, then worry more and then again desire more, acquire more…this is a vicious cycle that weakens your health. This cycle needs to be broken. Who will break it? It is we who   have to identify this cycle within ourselves and then get enough courage, strength and the will to break this cycle.

Then, will we still require to fast?? I don’t think the answer is YES..


Friday, September 16, 2011

Bharat Ratna – the first sportsman to get - WHO???

I was following with great interest the  recent clamour that the rules for awarding Bharat Ratna be modified to include sportspersons too so that our batting sensation Sachin Tendulkar can be awarded the nation’s highest civilian award.
Who gets Bharat Ratna?
This is the highest civilian award in India, awarded for the highest degree of national service. This service includes artistic, literary, and scientific achievements, as well as "recognition of public service” of the highest order. I will just reproduce(source – Wikepedia) some of the luminaries who have got this award -
·       Mother Teresa, C.V.Raman, S.Radhakrishnan, Amartya Sen, Bismilla Khan, M.S.Subbalakshmi, Bhimsen Joshi just to name a few…
·       Nelson Mandela – only foreign recipient
·       Some undeserving according to me – obviously politicians – MGR(I was surprised that he got it),Rajiv Gandhi,Indira Gandhi…
Now coming back to sportsmen getting this award and the hoopla surrounding Sachin being the first recipient, I have my views on this.Dhyan Chand
I too am a fan of Sachin ,who has provided joy to millions of Indians, indeed the world, with his sublime batting. More than that, I admire at the manner in which he has handled himself in this immense public scrutiny that the Indian press and viewers subjected him to. No reports or allegations on his personal and professional behaviour in his twenty odd years of international cricket have emerged(in public domain)...

However, despite all these great things attributed to Sachin, I am still unconvinced that if indeed the rules of the game are changed to include sportspersons, Sachin should be the first in the line to get the award.

The one name that comes to mind immediately is that of our hockey great Major Dhyan Chand.  Whether you are a hockey lover or not, anyone who claims to be a sports lover would, or should, know about Dhyan Chand. He was instrumental in the country winning three successive Olympic Gold medals in hockey - 1928, Amsterdam; 1932, Los Angeles and 1936, Berlin. Such was his mastery when the sport was indeed India’s national game, that there are tales of people travelling from different countries to just watch him play a game of 70 minutes.

And while there are many fans who travel to see Sachin’s batting, Dhyan Chand’s accomplishments and stories are already part of the sporting folklore. Consider the following:-
  • The most celebrated story of how Hitler, after watching his stupendous performance at Berlin Olympics, offered him the German citizenship and also a promotion in the German army. Of course, Dhyan Chand refused.
  • He was called the Hockey Wizard as the ball literally stuck to his stick and used to run circles around the defenders
  • I have seen video footages of him playing international matches with bare feet!!!
The points in favour of Dhyan Chand
1)     Dhyan Chand played an Olympic sport and Sachin plays a sport that is hardly played by ten countries
2)     Dhyan Chand is unparalleled in his field (that cut across the countries)while Sachin has a few contemporaries(Brian Lara,Ricky Ponting,Rahul Dravid,Sunil Gavaskar to name a few) who were as good if not better.(not to mention Don Bradman – who many believe is the greatest cricketer ever)
3)     In Dhyan Chand’s case, however, there was no one who came close. In terms of stickwork at least, there have been the likes of our own Mohd. Shahid,the mercurial Dhanraj Pillay or the Pakistani duo of Hassan Sardar and later Shahbaz, but absolutely none had such a magical influence over the game as Dhyan Chand.

So, back to the debate on whether Sachin should get the Bharat Ratna or not? Yes, most certainly. As I said, he merits it ahead of a lot of others who keep getting national awards these days. But should he be the first one? I most certainly think not. Dhyan Chand it should be,FINAL DECISION,LOCK KIYA JAAY ?? :)