Why do we see the imperfections in other persons? Why cant we see just the good in a person? If you see imperfections, you will complain. A spectacle with scratches on it will always see blurred images
Its true with us too..What we want to see is upto us.If I want to see the thorns and not the rose, then whose fault is it?My eyes? My thought process?
What does a complaint result in? Does that benefit us in any way? The more you complain, the more you build negative energy in and around you.
Why do we keep complaining about things that we cant control? Why do we keep complaining to people who cant help us in reducing our pain area?
Complaints take us away from constructive thoughts. Complaint is a form of escalation. The person whom you are taking your complaint to, will have to address it in a way that will satisfy you(more often than not , you would want him/her to agree to your complaint) - but is that the end of the “complaint” thoughts – NO
Complaints on a person crop only when you are not compatible with him/her. Incompatibility leads us to see only negative traits in that person and thus manifests the “complaint “ thoughts.
Lets pause for a moment and see the ROSE part of the person and not the THORN part. Will it not help us to take a more tolerant view then?
Think, lets resolve to reduce our complaints and lets just celebrate LIFE…..
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